Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Social Justice (DEIJ)

We honor the dignity of each individual and celebrate the collective of who we are.

Check out Beaver's "Dignity Dialogues" podcast, hosted by CEIO Delonte Egwuatu

We believe schools can only work effectively with students, faculty, and families by administratively supporting a Distributed Leadership Model. In any institution, diversity initiatives are successful and add to the positive experiences of all students when all members of the community own their responsibility to the work of equity, inclusion, and social justice. In the Middle and Upper Schools, administrative leadership supports this work on a strategic and day-to-day level.

We recognize the unique experiences some underrepresented students, families, faculty, and staff may have at independent schools and work diligently to promote success for everyone. Through a broad range of activities and programming—in addition to the work done daily in the classroom—we help students affirm identity, build community, and cultivate leadership skills. Throughout their time at Beaver, students have access to teachers, administrators, and staff who support them and help them learn and grow alongside them.

In the Middle School classroom

In our Middle School, we understand and value the development of the middle school student. During these pivotal years, middle schoolers are on a journey to identify their sense of self. Students ask themselves, “Who am I?” “Who am I in this community?” and “How do I fit in?” To ask these questions is to engage in DEIJ work. By continuously keeping an identity-conscious lens through our teaching pedagogy, extracurriculars, clubs, and overall programming, our students’ experiences create a diverse, inclusive, just, and belonging environment.

In the Upper School classroom

All Upper School students explore diversity, equity, inclusion, and justice topics—including gender identity, ethnicity and race, and socioeconomic status—in their classes. These topics are explored throughout the curriculum across disciplines. In addition to this foundation, students can engage in collaborative, multi-disciplinary projects, such as “Power as a Force,” where English, science, and history classes combine to explore power through different perspectives. In the US, they can take classes such as “Race, Class, and Identity,” “Women’s Rights and Other Social Movements,” and “Ideologies.”

Beyond the classroom

To help students work effectively within a diverse learning environment, we host affinity group gatherings throughout the year. These voluntary meetings give students a safe place to explore identity, discuss and share current events, and encourage and challenge one another. Building confidence and a sense of belonging often translates to students engaging in other aspects of school life: academics, sports, the arts, civic engagement, and clubs.

Support for this work

In this Distributed Leadership Model, the Chief Engagement and Inclusion Officer (CEIO) and MS Director of Engagement & Inclusion help support the ongoing work of the BVR community by providing leadership, guidance, resources, and more for the Middle and Upper Schools.

The Engagement & Inclusion Team

As with any institutional priority, every teacher, administrator, and staff member needs to take responsibility for the work.

The mindset of the Distributed Leadership Model

Affinity Groups & Ally Spaces

Beaver offers each student an academically challenging curriculum in an environment that promotes balance in their lives, fosters critical thinking, and cultivates collaborative and leadership skills. In our courses, students immerse themselves in complex ideas. We value diversity, emphasize multiple perspectives, encourage self-reflection, and empathy for other’s viewpoints.

To support all students in these endeavors and build an inclusive community, we host gatherings of different affinity groups throughout the year.  Affinity groups are voluntary gatherings that provide brave spaces for students to explore, affirm, and celebrate their identities, as well as share experiences, build community, and discuss current events. They encourage participation in discussions that encompass race, ethnicity, socioeconomics, gender, religion, sexuality, ability, and other identifiers present in classroom, advisory, and full community events. Meeting with a group of peers who share an important part of their identity fosters confidence, a sense of belonging, and leadership skills.

Affirmation, Celebration, and Exploration can be defined as:

  • Affirmation is acknowledging, recognizing, and validating aspects of who you are.
  • Celebration is embracing and taking joy in who you are and within our entire school community.
  • Exploration is discovering new facets of yourself and learning about different perspectives.

In the Upper School, these meetings are facilitated by faculty and often led by seniors. In the Middle School, juniors participate in some meetings.

Middle School

Affinity Groups

Affinity Groups are a(an):

  • Safe space meant for students who share a particular identity
  • Space to speak from the “I” perspective
  • Affirming space for students and faculty leaders to be in the community
  • Explorative space for students to further explore their shared identity
  • Space to raise Awareness in the community

The following affinity spaces are offered in our middle school:

Jewish Affinity Group
Open to all Jewish-identifying students

Students of Color Affinity Group
Open to all students of color

Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders (AAPI) Affinity Group
Open to all students who identify as Asian, Asian American, and/or Pacific Islander

Multiracial Affinity Group
Open to all students who identify as more than one race

Students of Divorced Parents/Caregivers
Open to all students of divorced parents/caregivers

Ally Space

An ally space is open to all who identify as the group and/or for those who wish to explore, learn, and develop allyship. The following ally spaces are offered in our Middle School:

SAGA (Sexuality and Gender Alliance)
Open to all students who are part of the LGBTQIA+ community and/or for those who wish to explore, learn, and develop allyship

Upper School

In the Upper School, we have affinity groups for:

Adopted

Asian/Asian Pacific Island Heritage

Black/African Heritage

Hispanic / Latino/a/x Heritage

Jewish Heritage

LGBTQIA+

Middle Eastern Heritage

Multiracial Heritage

Muslim Heritage

Single/Divorced Parents

South Asian Heritage

Students of Color

White Students Against Racism

Supporting our Community: Heart.Intellect.Action.

At Beaver, we expand the nature of school by leading with heart, connecting with intellect, and going forward with action.

We are committed to helping our students learn how to express themselves and see a topic’s complexities and multiple perspectives—keeping our humanity, dignity, and respect for others at the core of all we do.

Heart. Intellect. Action. is the framework on how we approach this work, and it allows us to:

  • Address the needs of our students and faculty/staff

  • Learn about the complexities of the issue

  • Provide space for difficult conversations

  • Speak, listen, and remain open to multiple perspectives

Recent Speakers

Having difficult conversations can be an arduous task. But with practice, we believe we can teach our students how to engage in complex conversations within a supportive environment.

To help give our students the tools they need to address their emotions, beliefs, and opinions—and go forward with action—we regularly bring experts to Beaver to lead conversations around:

  • Conflict resolution and courageous conversations
  • Asking questions and providing context on a given conflict
  • The impact of our words, through social media and other forms of communication, on others.
Recent speakers include:

Rosalind Wiseman

Author and expert on leadership, conflict, communication, and youth culture

Dr. Mehnaz Afridi

Director of the Holocaust, Genocide, and Interfaith Center, Manhattan College

Meg Bolger

Social Justice Facilitator, Educator, Writer, and Co-Creator of Safe Zone Project

Deborah Coltin

The Lappin Foundation

Kane Smego and CJ SUITT

The Bridge Project

Dr. Jill Walsh

Author, Researcher, and Digital Space Advocate

Jenn De Leon

Award-winning author

Lindsey Cormack

Author
Engaging in Courageous Conversations

We are also working with students to create more spaces to engage in these dialogues on campus. We know this work is ongoing; it will not be “done” after a term or two.

In an uncertain world, in any crisis, there is pressure to take a side from all sides, so it’s crucial we learn how to express ourselves and see the complexities and multiple perspectives of a topic; there are many ways and multiple truths.

The image* below is a guide students can reference when looking to engage in these types of conversations and questions to ask themselves.

visual on how to have courageous conversations

  • What beliefs and values of right and wrong do I have?
  • What influences those beliefs and values?
  • What are you feeling? What is causing those emotions?
  • What questions come to mind?
  • What sense are you trying to make?
  • What are you feeling compelled to do?

*Image Credit: Glenn Singleton’s Courageous Conversations About Race: A Field Guide for Achieving Equity in Schools, 2nd Edition (2015). 

It is important to keep our humanity, dignity, and respect for others when we are having courageous conversations. That should always be at the core of all we do.

How to engage in Courageous Conversations

The Dignity Dialogues Podcast

The Dignity Dialogues podcast serves as an extension of the learning that happens both inside and outside of our school walls at Beaver Country Day School, allowing community members and outside experts to share their experiences, stories, and personhood.

By sharing the beauty and diversity of human experience, this podcast delves into the power of empathy, listening, patience, and openness as tools to honor and amplify the value of each member of our Beaver community and beyond.

Hosted by Beaver’s Chief Engagement and Inclusion Officer Delonte Egwuatu, this podcast is for educators, students, and parents/caregivers everywhere.